Thoughts on Aspergers and being Single

I wonder if having Aspergers as a Christian is God's call to be single.  They say classical autism hasn't always existed but Aspergers has.  And with it you almost have to be alone most of the time or you will be overwhelmed.

In Peru, they know about Aspergers.  When they find out someone has Aspergers, showing signs of it which they look for, they give them a choice to be Shaman's or not (Holy men with wisdom who remain alone to seek enlightenment and sometimes prophesies.).

Maybe the prophets had traits like this.  I'm not a prophet, I'm just saying in Peru you can't be a Shaman unless you have it.  And the prophets were always alone to be with God then they come out temporary to share wisdom with the community.  Same with Shamans, they stay in tents and only come out every few months to do ceremonies and to share wisdom.

And most people with Aspergers I've found online are all single.  I've only found a few adults who had it who are married and the women say it's very difficult to deal with because they are so emotionally to themselves and have long periods of time they don't enjoy being around them.  I mean I think it would be a disaster if I got married.  Not that I ever will I can't even look a girl in the face much less talk to them.  I would have periods where I would have to sleep on the couch or another bed for weeks/months at a time.  And I couldn't eat with them, and eventually my mind would say "you must leave! and I would get a divorce.

I've realized this for a few years now for sure so it doesn't bother me as much feeling like I'm missing out.  I still hold to the theory that everyone is equal and gets equal treatment throughout their lives.  Kings and all the rich get the same amount of happiness and gifts from God as the poor.  Instead of a wife, I get more of a relationship with God, Paul notes that and encourages people who are like that to stay that way.  It's not something to be sought, because being single is a gift.  With a partner, you give up part of your relationship with God to them.  Some cases there are probably exceptions, but I think most things go on a 2 way scale, get more of this, get less of that.  The poor don't have to worry about bills but they have to stress over food.  The rich get all their pleasures they ever need, but then realize later in life that they can't make them happy and it's a bad fall (like celebrities).